Your Control Course

Your Control is a personal development program created by Pedro Giordano de Faria Cicarelli for individuals who want to consciously take control of their own lives.

The course provides practical tools to understand how the mind works, organize emotions, and transform automatic thoughts into deliberate, conscious choices.

More than motivation, this program is about clarity, presence, and personal responsibility applied to everyday life.

We live in an accelerated world where countless decisions are made on autopilot, driven by habit rather than awareness. The You in Control Course is an invitation to pause consciously, cultivate deep self-knowledge, and develop true inner mastery.

By understanding how thoughts, emotions, and beliefs shape personal reality, students learn to respond instead of react. This process fosters clarity, emotional balance, and intentional action, allowing individuals to reclaim authorship over their choices, behaviors, and life direction.


What Is the You in Control Course?

You in Control is an online course that integrates principles of neuroscience, psychology, practical philosophy, and applied spirituality. Its purpose is to help students move beyond constant reaction and develop emotional autonomy, mental focus, and conscious awareness of their daily choices.

Unlike superficial self-help content, the course addresses the root of mental and emotional patterns that shape behavior, relationships, and decision-making. The learning experience is progressive, practical, and designed for real-life application, respecting each individual’s rhythm, context, and personal journey.


Who Is the You in Control Course For?

The course is designed for individuals seeking mind control, emotional balance, and clarity in decision-making. It is ideal for those who struggle with maintaining focus, managing anxiety, breaking repetitive patterns, or taking full responsibility for their own lives.

It is also recommended for anyone who wants to develop self-discipline, emotional awareness, and inner maturity, building a solid foundation for personal, professional, and relational growth.


What Will You Learn in the You in Control Course?

Throughout the course, students learn how to observe their own thoughts without identifying with them, recognizing limiting beliefs and unconscious emotional patterns. Practical techniques for conscious breathing, focus, presence, and emotional coherence are introduced, enabling clearer decisions and actions aligned with real goals.

The course also teaches how to transform intention into action by developing sustainable mental and emotional habits. The focus goes beyond understanding concepts—it emphasizes applying, testing, and integrating the learning into everyday life.


Why Does Taking Control Transform Reality?

When the mind is not understood, it unconsciously governs life. Taking control does not mean controlling everything that happens, but consciously choosing how to think, feel, and act in response to circumstances. This internal repositioning reduces emotional conflict and expands clarity in decision-making.

The result is a more aligned life, with less dispersion, less reactivity, and greater presence. External reality begins to reflect internal organization, creating a genuine sense of direction, balance, and purpose.


You in Control — A Path of Awareness and Autonomy

You in Control is not just a course, but a process of inner maturation. It is an invitation to awareness, personal responsibility, and the intentional construction of one’s own life path. By developing inner control, students learn to live with greater clarity, emotional stability, and autonomy.

Taking control means moving beyond automatic reactions and learning to respond to life with consciousness. It is the daily choice of who you decide to become and the reality you choose to create.

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MODULE 1: WHAT ARE THOUGHTS?

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    Conceptual Overview

    Thoughts are the invisible substance that shapes all reality. Before any action, creation, or spoken word, there is always a thought. They act as the bridge between the inner world and the outer world — the foundation upon which each individual’s personal universe is constructed.

    Key Points

    1. Thought as creative energy: Every thought is a vibration emitted by consciousness. This vibration interacts with the energetic field of the universe, attracting experiences that resonate with its frequency.

2. Brain vs. Consciousness: The brain is merely the instrument. Thought is the music. Consciousness is the conductor that directs the flow of ideas.

3. The influence of emotion on creation: Thoughts charged with fear, guilt, or anger generate density and disorder. Thoughts nourished by love, purpose, and gratitude create harmony and expansion.

4. Where thoughts come from: Some thoughts emerge from the unconscious — echoes of the past. Others arise from subtle levels — inspirations, intuitions, and insights. The mind is an open field in constant communication with the whole.

5. The power of conscious observation: Unlocking the mind means learning to observe thoughts without identifying with them. When we observe, we choose. And when we choose what to think, we begin to choose what we create.

6. Thinking as a sacred act: Every thought is a silent command sent to reality. The universe responds to vibration, not appearance. For this reason, thinking is the first act of creation.

Core Message

“Reality does not happen to us — it happens from us.”

Practical Exercises

  • Exercise 1: List three recurring thoughts and identify whether they generate expansion or limitation.
  • Exercise 2: Choose one positive thought and consciously sustain it for 24 hours. Observe the impact it creates.
“The mind is the field where reality is planted. What is sown with clarity will inevitably flourish.”

MODULE 2: WHY SOME THOUGHTS FORMED IN CHILDHOOD BECOME LIMITING BELIEFS

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    Conceptual Overview

    Childhood is the ground where thoughts transform into beliefs. During the early years of life, the mind operates in a state of total absorption — every word, gesture, and emotional experience is registered as absolute truth. These emotional impressions form the foundation that later manifests in adulthood as limiting beliefs, silently shaping behaviors, emotions, and decisions.

    Key Points

    1. The child’s mind as fertile ground: Children live in a state of natural hypnosis, highly receptive to their environment. Everything they hear and feel is absorbed without critical filtering. As a result, simple thoughts are internalized as internal “laws.”

    2. How beliefs are formed: Repetition combined with emotion creates deep recordings in the unconscious. Phrases heard repeatedly, such as “you can’t do it” or “life is difficult,” become automatic programs that later guide adult behavior without conscious awareness.

    3. The illusion of mental freedom: Many adults attempt to change their lives while still being guided by invisible forces — their unconscious beliefs. External reality merely reflects what the unconscious accepts as true, reinforcing the cycle of belief, experience, and confirmation.

4. The protective function of beliefs: Every limiting belief originated as an attempt at self-protection. The idea “it’s better to stay silent” may have protected the child from criticism, but it later imprisons the adult in shyness. The same wall that protects also prevents growth.

5. The unconscious repeats the past: The mind recreates patterns until they are brought into conscious awareness. Life tends to repeat the same story through different characters and scenarios until the lesson is fully integrated.

6. Reprogramming is possible: Everything that was learned can be unlearned. By observing and welcoming limiting beliefs, their power dissolves. The mind once again becomes fertile ground for new conscious thoughts.

7. Inner healing: The process of liberation requires turning toward the inner child and saying, “You are safe now. I am here to take care of you.” This reconciliation opens space for new ways of being.

Core Message

“Beliefs are not truths — they are emotional memories that can be rewritten.”

Practical Exercises

Exercise 1 — Identification: List three recurring phrases or thoughts from your childhood that still influence your decisions today. Ask yourself: “Does this protect me, or does it limit me?”

Exercise 2 — Conscious Rewriting: Choose one of these beliefs and consciously transform it. For example: “I do not deserve to be loved” becomes “I am worthy of love simply because I exist,” or “The world is dangerous” becomes “I can create a safe and prosperous environment.” Repeat the new affirmation for seven days, feeling it as truth.

“Every limiting belief began as an act of protection. And every liberation starts when we recognize that we no longer need this shield.”

MODULE 3: HOW TO IDENTIFY YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS AND OVERCOME THEM

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    Conceptual Overview

    Limiting beliefs are deeply rooted ideas stored in the unconscious mind that silently shape one’s life. They hide behind the appearance of “reality,” manifesting through emotions, automatic thoughts, and recurring patterns. Identifying them requires attention and honesty; overcoming them requires awareness and compassion. Liberation does not come from fighting a belief, but from understanding it and replacing it with a new emotional and mental vibration.

    Key Points

    1. Beliefs disguised as absolute truths: Expressions such as “it’s impossible,” “I can’t,” or “that’s just the way things are” function as masks for limiting beliefs. The first step in recognizing them is to carefully observe inner dialogue, as it reveals unconscious programming.

    2. Language as a mirror of the mind: The words and phrases repeated in daily life reveal what the unconscious truly believes. By listening to how one speaks about money, love, success, or health, clear clues about active beliefs begin to emerge.

    3. Emotions as an inner compass: Fear, guilt, shame, and resistance are indicators that beliefs are at work. Every dense emotion points to an idea that needs to be reviewed with awareness.

    4. Recurring life patterns: Repeated situations — such as difficult relationships, constant failures, or persistent blocks — are not coincidences. They are direct reflections of the mind, as external reality merely acts out the internal script.

    5. Understanding instead of fighting: Resisting a belief tends to strengthen it. Healing begins when one can say internally, “I understand where you came from, and I no longer need you.” Integration dissolves the pattern.

6. Emotional reprogramming: Changing a belief requires transforming the feeling that sustains it. Affirmations, visualizations, and meditations become effective when accompanied by genuine emotion. The mind responds to vibration, not merely to words.

7. Conscious observation: By observing a thought, distance is created between the “self” and the belief. This separation marks the beginning of freedom, as it allows one to recognize: “This is only a thought, not an absolute truth.”

8. Liberating self-inquiry: Questioning one’s own ideas brings light to the unconscious. Questions such as “Where does this idea come from?”, “Who taught me this?”, and “Is this still true for me today?” open space for transformation.

9. Healing through love: Overcoming beliefs is an act of self-acceptance and compassion. Beliefs were born as mechanisms of protection, not punishment. By releasing them, the mind becomes lighter, more creative, and free.

10. Awakening: The external world transforms when the inner perspective changes. True freedom is not found outside, but arises when thought ceases to be a prison.

Core Message

“A belief is not a sentence — it is simply a thought that has forgotten to be questioned.”

Practical Exercises

Exercise 1 — The Language Mirror: Throughout one day, write down three automatic phrases you tend to repeat. Then ask yourself: “What do I truly believe when I say this?” For example, the phrase “It never works out” may conceal the belief “I don’t deserve for things to work out.”

Exercise 2 — The Reprogramming Wheel: Identify the limiting thought, recognize the associated emotion, and consciously replace both with a new thought and a new feeling. For example, the belief “I am not good enough,” accompanied by fear and insecurity, can be transformed into “I learn and evolve with every step,” supported by the emotion of confidence.

Exercise 3 — Dialogue with the Belief: Close your eyes and imagine the belief as a frightened child. Say to it: “You tried to protect me, but now everything is okay. You can rest.” Breathe deeply and allow yourself to feel the lightness of letting go.

“A belief loses its power when it is understood. The mind heals when it learns to feel love for itself again.”

MODULE 4: TRANSFORMING YOUR REALITY THROUGH A SHIFT IN THINKING

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    Reality as a Mirror of Consciousness

    Reality is a sensitive reflection of the mind. Everything you experience — people, situations, opportunities, and challenges — emerges from the vibrations you emit through your thoughts and feelings.

    “The world does not show what it is, but what you are vibrating.”

    There is no separation between the inner and the outer. The universe functions like a perfect mirror: it simply reflects the sound of your mental frequency. When you change the way you think, the reflected image changes as well.

    Thought: The Seed of Reality

    Everything begins within. Thought is the seed, and reality is the harvest. As long as you believe external circumstances are more real than your mental states, you remain trapped in the illusion that power exists outside of you.

    “The external world is only a consequence. The cause lies in the mind.”

    Transforming life is not about fighting the world, but about reorienting the mental field from which reality is projected.

    The Mind as a Garden

    The mind is fertile ground that always responds to cultivation. Every nourished thought is a vote of energy for the reality you choose to experience.

    • Negative thoughts act like weeds: they grow quickly and take over space.
    • Constructive thoughts are flowers and fruits that require care and consistency.

    “What is watered grows; what is ignored withers.”

    Shifting focus is the beginning of transformation. It is not about denying pain, but consciously choosing what deserves attention.

    The Vibrational Field of the Mind

    The mind is a vibrational generator. Each thought is a wave charged with emotion and intention.

    • Thinking with fear, anger, or guilt creates dense vibration and attracts experiences of the same frequency.
    • Thinking with love, gratitude, and trust expands energy and creates harmony, synchronicities, and opportunities.

    The universe does not judge. It simply mirrors what you sustain.

    “The universe does not respond to what you want, but to what you vibrate.”

    The Now: The Portal of Creation

    The power of change exists in the present moment. It is here and now that thoughts are born, and it is here that you can choose differently.

    The mind’s illusion is believing that thoughts arise on their own. In reality, it is consciousness that decides which thoughts are given power.

    “Thinking is a creative act. Focus is the force that shapes energy.”

    Training the mind means disciplining perception — shifting from seeing what is missing to recognizing what is already whole.

    From Spark to Flame: Sustaining the Vibration

    A single positive thought is only a spark. Sustained vibration over time is the fire that transforms reality.

  1. Choose the new thought.
  2. Nourish it with emotion and faith.
  3. Repeat until it is imprinted in the subconscious.

Over time, the external world begins to shift — new people, paths, and situations emerge, reflecting the new inner state.

“Reality adjusts itself to the frequency of who you become.”

Thought + Emotion = Creation

Thought is the form; feeling is the energy that gives it life. Without emotion, thought remains only a mental image.

When emotion and intention unite, thought gains creative power.

“The mind does not distinguish between what is lived and what is deeply felt.”

This is why imagining with emotion is so powerful: you are teaching the mind that it is already real.

Patience Is the Proof of Faith

Every transformation follows a natural rhythm. Between planting and harvest lies the time of trust.

Doubt and impatience block the flow of creation. But those who sustain the vibration, even without evidence, discover the secret:

“Reality does not change first — you change, and the world follows.”

Patience is the highest expression of faith in yourself.

Awakening: True Power Lies Within

With time, the individual realizes they were never a victim of circumstances, but an unconscious author of their own story.

Every old thought and every fear was a vibrational choice — and everything that was created can be recreated.

“By changing the quality of thought, the timeline itself changes.”

The past dissolves, the future is redesigned, and the present becomes the point of infinite creation.


MODULE 5: Daily Practical Exercises to Change the Structure and Quality of Thought

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    The Mind Is a Muscle: The Power of Mental Training

    Thought is a living force. But like any force, it requires training. The human mind tends to repeat the same mental pathways, even when those paths produce pain. The brain prefers what is familiar, even when the familiar causes suffering. As the saying goes: “The brain seeks safety, not happiness.”

    For this reason, changing the structure and quality of thought requires practice, discipline, and consistency. Just as the body transforms through daily exercise, the mind renews itself through conscious training.

    Neuroplasticity and Inner Alchemy

    Every choice of thought creates a new neural pathway. When you observe a thought instead of being carried away by it, a new brain circuit begins to form. Each time fear is replaced with trust, the brain literally rewires itself.

    Science calls this process neuroplasticity — the brain’s ability to reshape itself. Spiritual traditions call it inner alchemy: the transformation of density into light and chaos into harmony.

    “The mind is the laboratory of the soul — and thought is its creative substance.”

    1. Silent Observation Exercise

    Practice: five to ten minutes in the morning and at night. Sit in silence and observe the flow of thoughts. Do not try to control or judge them. Imagine yourself sitting by a river: each thought is a leaf floating along the current.

    Watch them come and go, dissolving naturally. This practice slows the mind and creates space between you and your thoughts. It is within this space that awakened awareness is born.

    “Between the thought and the observer lies freedom.”

    2. Conscious Substitution Exercise

    When you notice a negative thought, do not fight it — simply replace it. The mind learns through repetition and through the conscious direction of focus.

    • Automatic thought: “I won’t be able to do it.”
      Replacement: “I am learning, and every step brings me closer.”
    • Automatic thought: “Nothing ever works out.”
      Replacement: “Everything is cooperating for my growth.”

    Over time, the brain begins to recognize the new pattern as true. The mind learns to shift focus without denying reality.

    “Do not deny fear — simply teach the mind to see through new eyes.”

    3. Intentional Emotion Exercise

    Thoughts gain power when they are charged with emotion. Choose a feeling you wish to experience — peace, joy, or confidence — and consciously cultivate it for a few minutes.

    Breathe deeply and imagine this emotion spreading through your body, expanding until it fills the space around you. Practiced upon waking and before sleep, this exercise alters the vibration of the mental field.

    “Feeling is the fuel that moves thought.”

    4. Written Reprogramming Exercise

    Use a notebook dedicated exclusively to this practice. Write freely about the areas that limit you the most: love, money, body image, success, or spirituality. Within these sentences lie the beliefs shaping your experience.

    Next, write beside them a new version — the one you consciously choose to believe. Read it aloud with presence and emotion. Writing anchors the new pattern into the unconscious.

    “To write is to give form to the invisible.”

    5. Creative Visualization Exercise

    Close your eyes and imagine yourself living as the person you wish to become. See yourself acting, speaking, and feeling as this new version of yourself. Do not merely visualize — feel it as real now.

    The mind does not distinguish between what is lived and what is deeply felt. With practice, the brain and the energetic field align with this new identity.

    “The future already exists — you only need to vibrate at its frequency.”

    6. Daily Awareness Exercise

    Throughout the day, notice moments when the mind enters autopilot. Whenever thoughts of criticism, fear, or judgment arise, pause consciously: interrupt the pattern, take a deep breath, and return to the present moment.

    This simple action breaks the reactive cycle and restores control to awareness. Each conscious breath is an act of power.

    “To breathe is to remember that control was always yours.”

    From Training to Transformation

    Over time, conscious thinking becomes natural. The mind ceases to be a field of noise and becomes an instrument of calm and precise creation. Inner turbulence dissolves, and clarity emerges.

    “When the mind becomes silent, reality listens.”

    Conclusion

    The structure of thought is the invisible architecture of life. By rebuilding it, you rebuild the world around you. Every conscious choice transforms a fragment of reality.

    “Daily practice is the path to mental freedom.
    Change the thought — and the universe changes with you.”

MODULE 6: THE FREQUENCY OF THE MIND AND THE VIBRATIONAL LANGUAGE OF THE UNIVERSE

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    Conceptual Overview

    The human mind is a living antenna, capable of transmitting and receiving frequencies that interact continuously with the energetic field of the universe. Every thought is a vibration, and every emotion is the fuel that amplifies or distorts that signal. The universe does not respond to words, but to the vibrational coherence between what we think, feel, and truly believe.

    When thought and heart enter into harmony, a magnetic field of resonance is created, capable of attracting realities aligned with that frequency. To understand and adjust one’s own frequency is to learn how to speak the vibrational language of creation.

    Key Points

    1. The mind as a transmitter and receiver of frequency:
    Every thought is an energetic wave that propagates through the universal field. The universe responds to the emotional vibration behind words, not to rational discourse. Reality creation emerges from the union of thought, emotion, and energy.

    2. Coherence between mind and heart:
    When thoughts and emotions are aligned, the energetic signal becomes clear and powerful. Inner incoherence — thinking one thing while feeling another — creates vibrational noise. True manifestation arises from the union of reason and authentic feeling.

    3. The law of resonance and the energetic mirror:
    Everything in the universe vibrates at different frequencies. Similar frequencies attract one another. Thoughts rooted in gratitude, love, and trust generate harmonious realities, while dense emotions such as fear and guilt attract experiences that reflect the same vibration.

    4. Science and spirituality converge:
    The human heart emits an electromagnetic field stronger than that of the brain. Heart coherence — the alignment between emotion and thought — creates a stable wave that communicates efficiently with the universal field. Ancient spirituality recognized this as “the language of the heart.”

    5. Vibrational authenticity:
    The universe responds to felt truth, not appearance or forced positivity. Pretending to be positive generates resistance; feeling positivity generates flow. The key is to cultivate genuine states of presence, gratitude, and trust.

    6. Changing the frequency of the mind:
    Raising one’s vibration is a shift of internal state. Simple practices such as conscious breathing, silence, contact with nature, and gratitude reorganize the energetic field. Each act of presence clears mental noise and retunes the being to the creative flow.

    7. The mind as the musician of the universal symphony:
    Everything vibrates — people, sounds, thoughts, and emotions. When you change your vibration, you change the note you emit, and the universe responds with a new melody. External reality mirrors internal harmony or dissonance.

    Core Message

    “The universe does not listen to what we say — it feels what we vibrate.”

Practical Exercises

  • Exercise 1 — Vibrational Diagnosis: Throughout one day, observe your dominant emotional states. Ask yourself which thoughts accompany them, whether they elevate or drain your energy, and record three situations from the day along with the type of vibration you emitted in each one.
  • Exercise 2 — Frequency Elevation: Choose one realignment practice (breathing, music, meditation, or contact with nature). For ten minutes, focus on feeling genuine gratitude and observe the changes in your energy level and mental clarity.
“The vibration of the mind is the silent language through which the being speaks to the cosmos. When the heart translates thought into feeling, the universe responds through creation.”

7-DAY CHALLENGE

  • Conceptual Overview

    This chapter is a practical invitation: seven intentional and focused days dedicated to redefining the inner field and triggering a perceptible shift in reality. This is not instant magic, but a concentrated protocol that integrates observation, reprogramming, vibration, and action into a clear and powerful daily rhythm.

    When followed with discipline, this challenge becomes a pact with yourself. Seven days are enough to open new neural pathways, alter energetic patterns, and activate synchronicities that begin to move life onto a new timeline.

    The daily structure is divided into morning, midday, afternoon, and night. Each block contains short practices and one tangible action. If time is limited, prioritize the core practices: conscious breathing, emotion-based visualization, and aligned action.

    General Guidelines Before You Begin

    • Perform each practice with intention — presence matters more than duration.
    • Avoid self-criticism: if you miss a session, simply resume at the next one.
    • Record daily insights, emotions, and synchronicities in a notebook.
    • If you have a history of severe anxiety or depression, use this plan as a complementary practice alongside professional support, adjusting emotional intensity as needed.

    Day 1 — Clearing the Field: Observation and Inventory

    Objective: Create space between you and your thoughts by mapping beliefs and behavioral patterns.

    Morning: Conscious breathing (4–4–4), silent observation of thoughts, and a clear declaration of the day’s intention.

    Midday: Written inventory of automatic thoughts and associated emotions.

    Afternoon: Presence pauses with deep breathing whenever emotional reactions arise.

    Evening: Daily reflection journaling and a brief conscious gratitude practice.

    Day 2 — Deconstructing Beliefs: Inquiry and Rewriting

    Objective: Question limiting beliefs and initiate conscious reprogramming.

    Includes brain–heart coherence, written self-inquiry, conscious thought substitution, small acts of courage, and ritual writing before sleep.

Day 3 — Recharging the Vibration: Gratitude, Nature, and Movement

Objective: Raise the frequency of the energetic field through additive practices.

Conscious walking or contact with nature, active gratitude, uplifting music, intuitive movement, and nighttime visualization focused on well-being.

Day 4 — Coherence and Feeling: Uniting Mind and Heart

Objective: Align thought and emotion through heart coherence.

Rhythmic heart-focused breathing, emotionally felt affirmations, short visualizations before daily tasks, and conscious celebration of the day’s evidence and progress.

Day 5 — Conscious Manifestation: Visualization and Anchoring

Objective: Anchor emotionally charged mental images into the body.

Deep visualization combined with the creation of an anchor gesture, activation of this gesture throughout the day, inspired action, and journaling of signs and synchronicities.

Day 6 — Reinforcing New Patterns: Repetition and Connection

Objective: Solidify new emotional circuits and deepen commitment.

Repetition of affirmations with emotion, writing a letter to your future self, sharing insights with a trusted person, creative activity, and a symbolic release ritual.

Day 7 — Synthesis and Movement: Integration and Projection

Objective: Integrate the process and create continuity beyond the challenge.

A complete practice session, weekly planning, practical testing of intention, social reinforcement, and ritual closure through a full review of the journal.

Daily Practical Tools

  • An anchor gesture associated with an elevated emotional state.
  • A daily summary phrase, repeated upon waking and before sleep.
  • Daily journaling of internal and external signs.
  • Frequent pauses for conscious breathing.

Expected Results

No instant miracles are promised, but it is common to experience increased mental clarity, reduced automatic anxiety, the appearance of synchronicities, greater courage to act, and a stronger sense of inner alignment.

Seven days function as a momentum generator. True transformation is consolidated through continuity. Small daily commitments — attention, emotion, and action — are the seeds of deep and lasting change.

“Radical change begins with a conscious daily choice. This challenge is not a promise to the world — it is a pact with your own soul.”
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